Blind dates: Foundations Of A Strange Meeting
His friend just created with a man who has never met and know nothing except what he said. You have those fears. What if I do not like or what if I like, but do not like.
Well, do not worry, we're here to help:
Have an open mind
Remember this is a blind date. You've never seen this guy before. They do not form a mental image of him or have high expectations. Only will be disappointed if it's not like you imagined. You will know within minutes if you are attracted by it or not.
Keep it short, but sweet
Do not make an appointment at the movies, dinner, or anything else that could keep you together for more than an hour. Make an appointment for a coffee or lunch. If you are not interested in man, then you can make a quick exit if you just agreed to meet for half an hour or an hour, and if you do like him, then you can stay or make an appointment again.
His departure from the route
It is crucial for a blind date that has an escape route. You could get a friend to call 30 minutes in time and if you wish, you can make an excuse and leave. If you do like it, you can tell your friend to call back later. (Remember to always let someone know where you are). Or you could say that you promised your friend to go shopping an hour later and he planned to meet. If the date goes well, I have the intention of going to his call to let you know that "are not willing to go shopping." Shop if you are not interested. You could get some friends to turn on the meeting point and if things go wrong, you can go with them. If things go well, tell them you will meet with them later.
Be yourself
One of the biggest mistakes people make when going on a blind date is trying to be someone they are not.
When meeting someone for the first time, be yourself. If that means giving the maximum, or remaining casual, your personality shine through if you're not trying to be something they are not. While first impressions are important, do not feel the need to wear heels on a Sunday if you normally use flip-flops or sandals. He wants to know who you are, not who you think he wants to be.
Just in case
While going to a blind date can be exciting and fun, remember that you have no first hand knowledge about the person you are. If you have established through mutual friends, most likely have a rough idea of their plans. But just in case, make sure someone knows exactly where and when they meet.
If the person you are meeting is a complete stranger, however, should take extra precautions. Make sure someone knows your whereabouts, knows the name of the person you will meet, and the time the date is scheduled for. You may want to join a friend, or "run as" about 15 minutes at the time to take care of you.
Who pays?
Make it clear from the beginning if you pay half of everything. You may not want to feel like a child you owe nothing.
Saying Goodbye
Farewell after a blind date has the potential to be very uncomfortable, but it must be! If you give him a kiss if you like? If you say that you are not interested? It is always best to do what you think feels good. If you are interested in dating him again, make sure you know and tell him to call. If you are interested in seeing it again, make sure you know. It is better to be honest then stringing along with false hopes.
Knowledge
Pay close attention to the things he says, which can reveal a lot. Talking about tastes in music, film, food and art can be a good way to find out if the two have common interests - or nothing in common at all! You should also look for common "warning signs" when on a blind date. If the player does any of the following carefully!
• Talk about your ex-girlfriend to date
• Do not pay for the first date (or second, or third ...)
• To speak ill of his mother or his ex-girlfriends
• Treats the waiters and / or rude staff, or not to tip
• Remember that not all tastes are the same, and there are things about a guy who does not like, such as lack of hygiene, etc..
These are their own symptoms, so do not ignore them!
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