Contact La Selva: Man As Hunter
Do you know, as one man asked me many times recently by the girls if I can explain the basic behavior of men in that everyone can understand. The talks came much more laborious has been a friend of my wife confesses that everything is right with the world of reading what people are thinking. Individual files, so we decided to take a look. It seems that even in our advanced culture, the sexes are present simple misunderstandings. Men always seem to be a mystery when dating, and even as a man, I agree it can be as frustrating and bewildering to the uninitiated. So it's back to basics for us today.
Millions of years of evolution has not tarnished human nature, and even the most skilled female dater found that men with the antics that defy belief. "It acts like a Neanderthal," he said. And, you know, she is very wrong. Why? Simple, man is a hunter, which is what it was designed to do: Hunt. That basically means that in the world of dating the man wants to hunt, but are easier to get on the floor. Women forget this fact and ignore it at your own risk. To make a man want, you have to chase you and they feel they've accomplished something when you finally get to put your arm around your waist and give you a perfect kiss. If that sense of accomplishment that is missing, the hunter will go on searching.
Okay so let's move on to the plain of Savannah to explain in more detail. How do we know what men want and like. So all hunters want to catch the lioness, with her hair and cat's grace, queen of the jungle. The men are convinced they could catch the lioness, if you will, because everyone likes to think they are the kings of the jungle. But today they are too tired to do anything about it. That's exactly what happens when your hunters gather in the bars together. They speak of those who escaped and experience in the field. However, you and I know that hunters out there are fooling themselves. They know that deep down they do not have the ability to capture the queen of the jungle, but I would think that, maybe.
No, instead of our intrepid hunters in search of the small (but not necessarily) easier target, the prey more rewarding and beautiful, without doubt, the gazelle. The gazelle can be found in the packet from any weekend night with friends gazelle. Gazelles live next door or across the street. They are beautiful creatures and sufficient: But not without a struggle. So the chase is on. Which of the hunters of our success in catching the gazelle this weekend? Big game hunting and persecution, and is trying to carry out the majority, they feel rewarded when they finally succeed. It is inevitable that our hunter will calm down and stop hunting. But only if you are gazelle has achieved and is a real catch. Now our hunter thought he was called to the gazelle, but maybe just maybe, the gazelle was caught. Eventually.
On the negative side of our make believe Savannah is the antelope. Now, we want the lion hunter and tries to convince himself that he could catch if he really wanted, but it is too much like hard work. He knows he will capture his Gazelle in all reality, but when the Springboks are scarce and hard to get, then go after the easy target, the antelope. In the bar on Friday night there's something about the Springboks, but the antelope is grazing nearby, so it starts and immediate results. There is no escape, excitement and the sense of not only performance, but the poles of his hunger for the moment. Tomorrow begins the search again.
The antelope is not only very well out of this scenario, but never too much of a chase and never being satisfied with the result. So the next opportunity will be the hunter of gazelles, once again, with a mischievous look in the direction of the lioness in a kind of illusion. What if the hunter aims to achieve his rank, be satisfied? Invariably it does. The lioness is out of reach and more scarce as well. The lioness may represent the perfection of our hunters Savannah simple, and you can even think about what would happen if once in a while. However, if he did catch the lioness, is likely to get eaten alive! But man as a hunter will be very happy with his sense of accomplishment. The antelope are always going to lose out because they can provide our hunters with what they need and want more - escape, the thrill and satisfaction with the end result implied.
If all goes very wrong is when the lioness antelope, gazelles and even go to hunt the hunter. The hunter does not know what to do and is not designed to cope with such situations. The hunter was frightened and flee. So the important point is that they allow the hunter to feel you are doing the persecution, but secretly, it is not. Hunter still feels he deserves the feeling of success and achievement, even if you accepted it.
Our urban forests are filled with all creatures. The hunters are everywhere. The incredibly attractive and desirable Blahnicks lioness with her Manolo? Our hunter who wants, but rarely receives. The beautiful gazelle next door is good enough to continue over time to an agreement with the hunters. The antelope is too uncomfortable for a challenge. Now do not feel degraded by this, because, of course, the hunter is still the Neanderthal, but if you think of our world at this level makes it easier to get into the head of a man. Men love to chase girls and always fall into that makes them keep longer and more difficult. Nature is completely shot. They crave the beautiful gateway to our society, but men are not stupid, most actually know they have little chance of success. Only men of confidence even bother to chase.
So if you want to bring your hunter in the lid, keeping the girls chasing him, long after he thinks he has caught hold still chasing him. It is possible that a lion or a gazelle, but he will thank you. After all, maybe just maybe, men are simple creatures favor. Whatever you do in the appointment of our forest, never allow the antelope.
Watch your step girls, who no doubt still a jungle out there.
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