Contacts To Make Friends: An Alternative View

USE THE DATES AS AN OPPORTUNITY TO EXPAND THEIR SOCIAL CIRCLE
Dating is one of the best friend finders there. I recently read a tip from a statesman, who said we should all try to make a new friend, every five years. What excellent advice. When we are young we collect friends like sweets. As we age, we lose something along the kind of waste, of course, like him. We were out and we fall, we change and adapt and we have a group of our best friends, usually quite small, but reliable and close. I think it's fair to say that most of us have no more than a handful of close friends as we age, simply because it is not possible to have a close relationship with many people. Best friends require maintenance.
If they do go with its own light is at its most simple - we are introduced to new people. We are in a one to one basis to talk and discuss and basically see if we get well enough to become friends. Dating is often lost in this sense, the fact that to become lovers should be friends too. It is only if they are attracted to your hair, face, chest, legs, etc. This is what happens, what we have in common, we share the same system of beliefs, skills, laughter, humor, perspective background, and passions. If we do, then this may be the foundation of a great relationship.
If that is so often missing X factor the whole thing off as if to say, so they were not good enough so far that are complete. What's missing here is the fact that all the other tracks. We have made a new friend. Then people will say, yes, but I'm not looking for another friend. Well let me tell you my friend, we can all do with more friends. Yes, okay, our closest friends are often the more friends we have shared with everyone, but may have been a time when he was not sure what you mean. My point is that good people are hard to find so that people not only outside, the fall in the first round.
I am not suggesting that you meet not every day as the next new closest friend. I am suggesting that among all the people who make far, none of the two people who can not be your ideal, but it could be your ideal friend. So try to keep an open mind. Maybe you can suggest that even if you do not feel like a couple who want to stay in touch and contact to do something. Make sure you have defined this as a fact, and clear, however, and not someone along the chain and think that there is some romance in the air.
We try to remember that one of the best facets of the perfect match is friendship. People often say they would like to marry your best friend. In other words, your partner should also be your best friend. What we mean, but that the concept of "best friend", the person you can trust, confidence in their entirety, in turn, when they need it and talk about everything in the world. This is a beautiful thought to be taken into account.
In fact, the data is about making friends and love even more. The formation of close links in a relatively short time and then build on them. Therefore, a purely sexual or physical phrases usually have much more hope. It's amazing how many good friends also become lovers as well. I have read some good true stories about people who had been best friends and eventually married.
I think these days that dating has become a clinical problem and argued that the basic elements are in danger of being lost. To love someone you have to trust them. A trust them you need to open your heart to them very soon and take the risk included. Opening your heart means a willingness to trust. It is a willingness to make that person your friend. Trust and friendship are the cornerstones of a successful relationship and therefore there is no quick path to eternal happiness. Date and find a friend. Make friends and love.
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