Start A New Relationship

Start A New Relationship

WHEN THE DATA IS CONVERTED IN A RELATIONSHIP ?

My God, that can not be more unstable than that. You feel sick, can not eat, you know what you're thinking and feeling, but you're thinking too much. You feel happy, you feel sad, you feel restless, you worry, very happy. Want to panic and wish you had said no. What is happening? You are in your first four weeks of dating.
The first thing that can happen to a date is that you feel the fear before the event. You may have had a lot of dates and expect little, but I was pleasantly surprised. 

You may have accumulated to date and its gone very well and are surprised, pleasantly. In fact, you may feel sad and angry that the first date went well, because now you have to think a bit about the situation. In the beginning, then have to decide whether you will have to follow or if the promises of the previous night and optimism that has changed in the cold light of day. For most people, however, good or bad you feel a little scary, even if you are walking on the moon. 

For many, the day after a first date went very well make you feel good. You feel desired, attractive and you realize that someone really likes to attract. But - until you have secured a second date that still feels like you've got it all wrong and that you are wrong. When this second back feel great and this is a real test, because this time is discussed thoroughly with the other and testing each other in verbal interaction and the emotional content of the conversation. Its reliability and ingenuity will be tested as well as many other subtle aspects of his character. At this stage you certainly should not have had sex! 

After the second date is where panic can set in. If you really like that person you panic and worry that you may lose before something even begun. On the other hand you may like them and the panic that everything might be too soon, and you unknowingly. So this is where disaster can begin to intervene in a perfect future. You can come across as domineering and possessive, even though you do not have a relationship yet. So stop calling and stop thinking, and sure to bring out the best they can, or a routine. In other words, back off and let cool. Take your time and stop panicking. If you are going out then, but do not rush. 

However, if just not sure about the intimacy that comes, again, take your time and be cool. Pleasure in the first weeks of the date is in the confusion and passion, but also to savor every moment. In a long term, these are difficult days for the repetition, and in the atmosphere to meet someone new and enjoy the events that occur. A new relationship does not necessarily lead to marriage and commitment to stop thinking a lot and just enjoy the dates they occur. 

There are many dilemmas in the first weeks of their first kiss, where you should go on dates, if you should phone, what if it is not called when expected, things are more interest now. That will move to if you should invite a coffee, what happens if you go to bed with them or what happens as they increase the emotions. Once again it is trying to keep the fundamentals of perspective. All your daily life can be affected by starting to like someone and fall in love with the only thing that gives a structure is its regular daily pattern. Because of this, it is crucial to keep things as consistent as possible. Try to keep your daily regimen, including clubs, hobbies and trips to the gym. However, one of the most beautiful aspects of this initial period is the breaking of that regime to find small moments of emotional intensity to his new friend.

I am often asked if a date becomes a relationship and I have answered more fully in a different article, but I think the first 4 weeks are crucial in creating a basic foundation on which a relationship can become. That is out of the first date they expect the umpteenth time. If you live near you may have stopped counting now. I can understand that circumstances may prevent regular dates for some, but I think if you are interested in a serious relationship for development, the approach is very useful. At 4 weeks of appointments that should have been out with a bunch of times and that to know the beginning of another. 

If dating is very, very slow, then there is a danger that in reality never fire the main engines for takeoff, so that active people to maximize the opportunities presented data. You see, when you really like someone, I want to be with them, they want to spend as much time with them to know, understand and learn how to fall on them. For this to happen has to meet regularly to build that level of intimacy otherwise waste time.
The first 4 weeks are critical as are the test time. If you pass this initial period, you have the opportunity to build a relationship. In my opinion it is too early to have sex if you are serious, but too long for a couple of meetings. It's the perfect time to see if you are fairly consistent above and beyond the initial physical attraction. A month of dating is a month of happy events and phone calls and memories. If in that period things are not working well, then you can go without damage. 

You may feel sick and do not feel safe, but when we all look back and try to describe what is in love is like most of us tend to remember the first four weeks, when we met and used to describe feelings well it's all true concern.