Meeting The Parents: Stressful Occasions

Meeting The Parents: Stressful Occasions

HOW TO HANDLE FAMILY REUNIFICATION FOR THE FIRST TIME

Okay so you've met the love of his life. You have been safe in her nest cocoon of love and things have gone well. They are getting very serious and it's time to take things to the next level, the phone calls from curious parents concerned. Lets face it, is fear. His private life is about to open to scrutiny by people who know who is scrupulously honest. This is dangerous territory, dear reader. 

The first danger is that their parents were able to confirm something you already thought, but at a discount. You know you have a lazy eye, but it is necessary to bring the tea and biscuits. Now, certainly does not ruin a good time, so we hope we are wrong. What follows is that parents have high expectations and standards for their children and the person who is about to drag through the original door is about to be challenged as a war criminal. Woe to us if not the interview, as you may feel isolated. On the other hand its possible your parents could be embarrassing photo albums taking the time had mumps than 3 years. 

Parents are always lovely and friendly feel much worse than the children whom the love of his life he has never seen before, because they are fearing the embarrassment factor. They are not. If your new love is flirtatious you can drive to the wall by his friendly behavior and your mom or dad takes a shine to them. Also in this case should also take into account the difficulties that may arise due to the excesses and eccentricities of the parents. You may have become accustomed to the taste of his father hanging from the branches of a tree in the garden, but the date can be a bit surprised. 

Of course, before the first meeting ever-surprising information in the car on the road. Parents, of course, I live just around the corner, but generally far about 30 miles +. The way you explain about all the little foibles and eccentricities, things to note, apologies in advance. Things to say and not say things, etc. My favorite was when I dated an Italian girl. I went to Florence to visit and we had to formally request permission to accompany father after 22:30 pm. I was ushered into his study that seemed to have found Marlon Brando in The Godfather. Unfortunately, they do not speak English. I had to spend 3 hours in there and using sign language. He enjoyed my silly efforts and granted permission! 

Once again, it may be the lover of the visitors are introduced din which case they are either going to be good enough for the mother of a soldier's daddy's little princess. It is a fact. Well, that's what you feel in the way and play repeatedly, despite several scenarios that could develop. What if the bathroom is not downloaded, what happens if you accidentally break a Ming vase or start cursing uncontrollably for absolutely no reason. And so the stress levels mount accordingly. 

Usually, when presented to parents who are willing to join us, if not on 20 this month. Parents simply want their children to be happy in life and love, and while their potential partners are good, then fine. Or so you think. Remember that in the back of the mind is the idea that could end up being a family and who exactly will pay for the wedding anyway! So it is worth making a real effort and be aware at this time. 

If you put the things that can endanger their own relationship with what we try to stay in shape, has a small gift with you and your wits about you and your sense of humor at the top changed. He is serving with the parents really that important? can be, depends on many factors such as proximity of family and age, etc. But ultimately, everyone is looking for some kind of acceptance of our new members who want to be told we've done a very good choice. And who better to make people closer. One of the obstacles you need to jump. 

Things to remember on a first visit:
• Be polite and show respect
• Not having a hangover from the night before
• Do not always refer to sex and your partner
• Ask if you can not sleep together at home
• Take small gift with you that has been investigated
• Ask parents unless formally invited to another
• Do not drink alcohol unless invited
• Do not smoke, even in the garden or patio
• Never refuse food and drink. Accept with grace
• Do show humor and character, but not too
• Do you think through some basic questions that can be ordered
• Do not be evasive about your job or career
• Dress well and be presentable
• Avoid any form of foul language
• Think about the whole situation as a short interview