Q & A: End The Conversation, She Wants To Be Friends

Q & A: End The Conversation, She Wants To Be Friends

Yes, it's that time again: the day of his appointment and the role of relationship questions. Although we would like to answer each one personally and with as much detail as possible, the overwhelming amount of inquiries forces us to highlight those that are most interesting to AskMen.com readers, your e-mail may even be answered in the process.

Q this week and focuses on how to avoid the lack of things to talk to women, what to do if she just wants to be friends, and how to choose a woman to consider 10. David DeAngelo, author of Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know about how to succeed with women, has your answers.

What should a man do when speaking with a woman and he gets "stuck" and run out of things to say?

One of the most important things you can do is prepare yourself mentally for this type of situation.

Now I do not want to sound like a strange self-help motivational type, but it works mental preparation.

Take your time when you close your eyes, and in fact the plan of how you would like the interaction with the women to go. If you have never done this before, you will learn a lot from him.

Do you think things could ever imagine when you are taking things step by step in his mind.

One of the best things you can do is get a journal so you can take notes.

Try this: Sit down and write 20 great things you could have said in that situation where he was trapped, and then go through them and mentally imagine telling everyone five times.

Another important thing to do is know how to get information and standing.

If you really sense that the conversation is about to end, one must know to ask your e-mail/number and go. You can do this at any point in the conversation as soon as you like.

Here are some of the items outright to speak to the women:

1 - Why women are crazy and men are perfect.
2 - How to stop thinking about you only as a sex object.
3 - What must change to take a chance with you.

Of course, you need to be able to present these issues in a file. Cocky and funny laughs while you are talking about them, however, you will find that issues like these can create some good fun with women.
What should a man do when a girl says she "just wants to be friends" before they get together?

Here's A Rule Of Thumb For You:

If you start to hear things like "I just want to be friends" or "I'm kind of seeing someone at the moment" when calling women, probably means you're doing something when you know you're doing to see how " nice guy "type.

You're probably not using what they have learned to create what is known as the sexual tension and attraction.

If you do not understand how these things at first, that's fine. Keep doing what you are learning, and you start to get a better idea.

I would say you should begin using the Cocky & Funny material, as soon as possible because it creates this tension and attraction from the beginning.

I also suggest that you start getting email addresses and not just numbers. Women tend to respond better to e-mail, on my personal experience.

What do you tell a guy that is good to approach and initiate conversations with most women, but he gets nervous and when you encounter bumps "10"?

Well, first of all, you have to realize that each individual has a different idea of ​​what a "10".

Yes, some women are obviously more attractive or "fixed" than others, but we all have different tastes, and in the morning when she wakes, she will be very different from what is the first time I see her.

So remember: This girl is 10 so only 6 or 7 with another man. That should help.

So if you can not find a way to overcome the fear of approaching beautiful women, then just have to face the fear and do it anyway.

To begin with, just focus on saying anything to the women you see. You have to see for yourself and teach your body and mind to not be afraid of women.

I do not care if you approach the next 100 women who come and say, "You're beautiful ... can I have your autograph?" Actually, that's pretty funny ... You could try, come to think of it.

My point is you have to do something!
Most of the anxiety of approaching attractive women fear the unknown and fear of ridicule or rejection.

Once you actually get a group of women and talk to them, you'll realize that nothing bad will happen. This works very well.
Then, when you overcome the fear, maybe the negotiations for the numbers, etc.