Romance In Dating: Is There Romance?

Romance In Dating: Is There Romance?

DOES TRUE LOVE STILL FLOURISH IN OUR MODERN CYNICAL ?

 A few months ago I had an idea for a couple of days, maybe, just maybe the romance was gone and gone forever. Maybe I was having a bad day, who knows. But it gave me the idea of ​​thinking on the subject of romance and put pen to paper (keyboard and, in fact). 

It is love and romance dead do you think? I do not think at all. After pondering the question that came to the decision that the romance must be alive and well and living in all of us, you can only hide. Instead of us anyway. It's a question that women can be accused of asking more than men. But I know a lot of men doing the same question. Listen when I say - the romance is not dead, but may appear dead a couple of days. The question is, why do we think happened? 

The answer, of course, depends on what you mean by romance. The romance is many different things to different people. It can mean a kiss in the rain, which may mean keeping a door open, showing respect, buying flowers, move a chair with one arm, so that a Valentine's card, creating surprises for your loved one, even help when needed, but usually is directly related to the affection and solidarity. Romance is the art of showing their feelings in an outward form and someone feel special. You will not be romantic with someone you do not want romance, and it is the union of two like-minded people, which allows romance to blossom. 

Why do we think that love and romance are gone? This is most obviously demonstrated in a world of passion where sex has become mainstream. Sex, of course, is not the romance. Sex is just that, sex. It may be part of the novel, which can be an integral part of love and a relationship, but the romance is something completely different. Romance seems to have disappeared from our lives because people are so busy, so sound, so they need the things that help in the operation. In other words, our lives are very selfish, actually. We may not like to admit it, but we do first, what helps us, then second, to help others. With romance, their needs are subject by their own will to allow the benefit of their chosen partner. 

Men are often accused of not being romantic, and very practical in place. That may be true, yes, but it is unfair to men to say that all the time. The practicality of men often contrasts with its romantic nature. By fixing something, fix, fixing, doing, help, often is a man who shows consideration, effort, attention, affection and yes, ladies romance! The problem is that women do not always see it that way. Covered throughout the day in the oil in the yard is not romantic, except perhaps in a movie or two. Arguing with a waiter or a store is not helping, is being aggressive and rude, and therefore is not romantic at all. However, do not try to understand that a man thinks that if help or assistance that is being considered. 

When considering love and romance, romance is about effort, trying to win votes to earn the love and respect. One has only to read the history of Chaucer Knight to read a full description on the concept of romance. What I am saying is that if you want to be romantic, it is necessary to understand what it means to be romantic. Does this mean that you need to see French films, reading romance novels, romantic music. Maybe it does! Our world can be a soulless world, and more often than not lack the romance is our daily life. But it need not be so. I contend that if you are willing and able to learn new romance for you, then you can start practicing. Romance is a definite art from. The fact that the person is with you purchase a rose, not the most romantic. But perhaps it is a romantic gesture, if spontaneous. 

The greatest variety of roses, the most expensive seat at the opera, the most luxurious car lots are not romantic, especially when it is regularly provided. Romance is about the small thoughts and expression, to give and feel about caring for someone or show someone how special they are. Here are the details on the little things in life a lot of attention, especially to improve someone's life one way or another. Now that is romance. 

Valentine's Day is a day trading, but many times we think we know it's sad to February 14 of each year, when I see so many people in the pace of work after the conclusion of expensive roses and cards. It is good to show you love someone, but if this is the only day in a year it does, then where's the romance? Every day is a day to buy and send flowers, every day is a day to make someone a handmade card, a scribbled note, asingle flower from the garden, a note on the pillow, a surprise breakfast, a surprise trip if just a phone call when necessary. That, my friend, is the romance.