Contacts: Memoirs Of The Best Times We've Had
WHAT MAKES A GREAT DATE NIGHT ?
The best dates are the simplest, less forced, more natural. The best dates that can happen with a complete stranger out of nowhere, or are planned weeks in advance to make special plans to win the heart of your partner. I remember talking to a person in an Internet dating site late Saturday and one hour after the first conversation I had met a drink. That Saturday night in Chicago was very fun to the company, fantastic person, 4 hours of laughter and good food. We exchanged life stories and details of the little things in our lives and reduction of hours everything was fabulous. Due to travel etc., we never met again, but the point is that a perfect day, I could not really planned.
I think it's true that when we plan something too early, you can let go and build things at levels much higher than is really justified. If I know we're on the date three weeks, on Saturday I will start planning, even though I try not to do so. What am I going to wear, how I put on my hair, which is nothing out of it. And so on. Before you know it, a simple date has become the Woodstock planning.
In other words, simple spontaneous dates are the best. The formality also tends to destroy the best dates. Somewhere too formal does not allow both parties to relax and can be oppressive and stifling. The concern to make things right, ordering the correct dishes, selecting the wine, even paying the bill. In particular, the right clothes. A safe dating partner will allow things to flow smoothly and you get to your taste, but the point is that the best dates involve somewhere far more relaxed. Dinner can be a walk in the park, a beach bar and a walk along the beach. So always choose something that both people can be comfortable, kick off your shoes and just chill.
The best dates are those that begin with few expectations and open into something much bigger. A brief meeting at the coffee ends up being a passionate conversation day long. At lunch time by then end of every day, including weekends. They are the best dates. Without waiting for a date to be something special and are the most surprising finding is a good date too. Two people who end up becoming a couple will always remember how they met and what they did, it's always important to put some thought into every date you go.
I think if you date continually for the sake of it, then you have an idea of your idea of a perfect date and how it would go. Even if you have not met anyone fabulous lately you can still imagine what is the best time would be for you. There are a number of issues about the dates, blue lagoons sunsets romantic restaurants in Rome. These are things we can aspire to in our fantasies. But having great dates means being open-minded, open to new people, new ideas and good conversation. We often observe friends with their lists of questions to recite when going through the motions on the first date and wonder why go anywhere.
My method always involves meeting and greeting the date of my years I know. In this way, and that is easy. I love talking, so I always try to get the two to talk about anything and everything with a glass of wine. If it flows naturally then great, if not, then the fine always set a mental time limit at first. My favorite best dates have always been lovely people that are interesting and interested. They have always been brief encounters the first time I'm dying to see them. They are instant adrenaline photos, which are meetings open to my eyes salivating with anticipation. I put some of that to date dealing with the kind of people I get along with, but also being very receptive to new ideas.
It is better that the dates of the mine, probably, but the point is, on dates as the best treasure of memories and experiences. You've met great people and that is a bit more on the way before his time is up.
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