What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships
Women often say that men confuse and do not know what a man really looking for. They have tried to please them in the past and did not work so no man can concentrate on pleasing them or leave. If the media is to be believed, many women do not care what a man is looking for more, as they have been empowered by their sexuality and feel comfortable in their new role as sexually liberated career woman in charge of their own destiny. In which case, if the man wants, that's fine.
No matter whether that view is actually true or not. The truth is that modern man is increasingly difficult to find their place in the world. Military and space programs, rightly, that women are highly qualified in their departments and in most aspects of the industry, women excel. The old male bastions are crumbling and with them their innate self-esteem and their understanding of how they should act and what they want.
Any woman who reads this can say it is a problem for men and have to deal with it. Of course, but you can not expect miracles immediately. Generations of history dictating the role of a man and the function can not be decided and altered in the space of 20 years without consequence. Few can argue against the excitement felt by the woman and her training, but at the same time, one must expect issues to coincide with this. And one of those that have said is the question of understanding what the modern man is seeking.
Men have started to evolve and are starting to understand that their role can not be like it once was. "Home" is the word, because this does not mean that there are large areas of the world where men insist on being the breadwinner and women should continue to enjoy bringing up children in the home. Plenty of time to change the world. However, in our western cities a change is in full swing. Men know that finding a partner will have to work harder than ever and are aware that women have the last word, now more than ever. But this does not change in essence what a man is looking.
Well, what is a man you want?
• First a man is in search of a love story. This may surprise many women but men like to love and be loved as. The problem is that many women are so passionate and cold. It is not easy to find a loving woman and it is remarkable how many men trying to hang on when they think they have found their Miss Right.
• Men are looking for a woman who is attractive to them. Women may despair that men can be so shallow and that looks are important, but be careful. Men are not necessarily looking for a catwalk model and many men do not like women who weigh 80 pounds. However, men want a woman who takes pride in their appearance (but not excessively). Men are proud to have a girlfriend who looks good and do not think anyone who says otherwise.
• Men are looking for a trustworthy girl, someone who can have faith in someone and be there for them. This may sound strange to say, but the fact is that some women are not true and many of them are not true. So many, in fact, that men are becoming more cautious. That kiss at a Christmas party can not be counted, or the flirtatious behavior with the gorgeous barman and in fact, everything is great fun and a part of the character of a woman. But reverse the situation and as a woman, who hate him do the same. A man can not forgive a woman being unfaithful and what you are looking for someone who really trusts.
• Men want to make a home over time and are looking for a woman who has become a participant in the provisions of family life. Women with a sociable lifestyle are attractive because they can provide the basis for the maintenance of the social agenda, which run in a long term relationship.
• Men seek women who are feminine gentle and kind because deep down the qualities that make a woman a great mother are an attraction in themselves. I am not suggesting that the man himself maternity needs, although some do, is more the point that men seek women's attributes as someone who would be a great mother of the children in the future.
• The men that women with a great sense of humor. Women often present as tense or too worried about small things. Sometimes one hears of a girl who is "one of the guys." What this means is that she is able to fit with his sense of humor and is sociable and fun to be with him. These women are very attractive to many men. Men want to have fun and relax when not ideal business partners are women who are able to do the same.
• Men seeking women who retain their femininity and and are caring and kind. In recent years, men of imitation may be a female fashion statement, but not make them attractive. While every woman in the world burps and farts and has the right to drink pints of beer, not necessarily to attract the opposite sex. Women can get angry and say well men will just have to get used to it, but the problem is that they do not.
You can only choose not to go to women who act the same way as friends of the drink.
• Men want someone to support it. Many women are quick to criticize men in their behavior, career and set about trying to change and shape. This is a crucial mistake. Men can be manipulated, yes, but they see their partnerships as support systems. The best relationships work both ways in terms of support. When a woman is not able or willing to give this support and is too quick to criticize then you may lose the man.
• Men do not like angry women who shout. They want a woman who can debate and converse and is able to speak. Communication is king. A fire passionate temperament may have made interesting and challenging on the first day. But by day 500 is maintained without any glory.
• Men love a difficult woman, someone who keeps them on standby. Men are generally lazy in relationships once they feel they are in safe territory. When a man confronts what he does something about it. If you want to keep your man interested, keep challenging him.
• Men are generally more reserved about sex than women. This is my experience is a fact. Men know what they want in bed and tend to stick to it. The appetite for sexual adventure in most men is not there, even if they are convinced it is. Men are actually quite conservative. Sexually adventurous has nothing to do with having lots of partners and more to do with things that are going to deal with the same partner. In most test cases I have done, is the man looking for a quiet moment in the bedroom and the woman who ultimately becomes bored.
• Men want a woman to commit to them. Though increasingly this is hard to find, it does not take away the desire. Men want a girlfriend that can be shared with confidence and be open a. The commitment is not a one way street and therefore men are struggling to find the levels of commitment at the top. But the need is still there.
• Men do not want to be alone.
This column can fire a great debate. The fact is that modern man is looking for a girl safe, sexy, with which you can have a long term relationship. He wants to have fun, share your life and finally settle down. There is some long term, but not many. The problem is that children have of the world has changed. They do not necessarily want to have children and settle down right away, but it will come. They seek self-respect, even if they are the pillar and the pursuit of respect for your partner.
While women are becoming stronger in their new roles in society, it is worth remembering that you need, and always will be two.
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