Is jealousy a sin? Between women and men, who do you think are more jealous in a relationship? According to me, jealousy is a relationship disorder. In fact it is a dangerous monster which has messed up many relationships. Do you agree with me that this is a dangerous monster that has messed up many relationships?
A couple of months ago, Jack came to me. He was afraid that his wife was having an affair with another man. According to Jack they'd been having problems in their love relationship. Due to these problems, his wife decided to spend more and more time outside their home, definitely with pals as a way of avoiding more problems with Jack.
Jack didn't believe that all the time she was out was spent with her pals. This made Jack to be calling her now and then to inquire if she was still with her friends and exactly where they were. On occasions Jack would cruise around to confirm the truth if she was really with her pals.
As soon as his wife Janet returned home, Jack would give a relentless grilling. Since Janet knew that she was not cheating on him, she would shut him with the truth where she had been all of the time. These happenings continued for sometime but it reached to a point where their communication dried up. A relationship without communication is as well as dead; thus Jack's relationship with Janet seemed to be over.
Since then, Jack seemed to be dreadful, sad and had signs of a person suffering from some kind of stress. He no longer took care of himself and didn't hang out with friends. This made his pals to wonder what was happening to him.
It is being jealous of his wife that made him look this way. Jealousy was driving them away from one another. Jack lacked the trust for his spouse and this didn't only insult his wife but it also eroded anything good they ever had together.
Now Jack desperately wants to get rid of this bad habit of being jealous. He is very much willing to reconcile with Janet and to trust her always. He has learned his lesson on the best way to build a healthy relationship with his wife. He never thought that maybe his wife was trying to find out how to plan a surprise birthday party.
Today I assure you that no love relationship will last if a partner(s) is jealous. If you're jealous in your relationship, then you will stand to lose your dignity, destroy your self-esteem and of all drive your girlfriend or boyfriend away from you.
Nothing kills a marriage or ruins a relationship quicker than jealousy between partners. This monster literally creates anger, fear, hatred, fury, unnecessary anxiety and loneliness between partners.
To be sincere, no one wants to be in relationship with someone who is jealous. Therefore, how do you avoid being jealous in your relationship? Below is a little advice.
1.) Always talk with your partner. Why am I even telling you this? You see when communication breaks down between partners it implies that something has changed. Your partner will start getting anxious. He/she may tend to believe you are hiding something. This leads on to mistrust and finally jealousy will find room in your relationship.
2.) In your relationship you shouldn't feel insecure. Partners who feel insecure eventually become jealous. Stop those misleading feelings of fears and paranoia.
3.) You should always trust your partner in order to get rid of jealousy or to avoid it in your relationship.
A couple of months ago, Jack came to me. He was afraid that his wife was having an affair with another man. According to Jack they'd been having problems in their love relationship. Due to these problems, his wife decided to spend more and more time outside their home, definitely with pals as a way of avoiding more problems with Jack.
Jack didn't believe that all the time she was out was spent with her pals. This made Jack to be calling her now and then to inquire if she was still with her friends and exactly where they were. On occasions Jack would cruise around to confirm the truth if she was really with her pals.
As soon as his wife Janet returned home, Jack would give a relentless grilling. Since Janet knew that she was not cheating on him, she would shut him with the truth where she had been all of the time. These happenings continued for sometime but it reached to a point where their communication dried up. A relationship without communication is as well as dead; thus Jack's relationship with Janet seemed to be over.
Since then, Jack seemed to be dreadful, sad and had signs of a person suffering from some kind of stress. He no longer took care of himself and didn't hang out with friends. This made his pals to wonder what was happening to him.
It is being jealous of his wife that made him look this way. Jealousy was driving them away from one another. Jack lacked the trust for his spouse and this didn't only insult his wife but it also eroded anything good they ever had together.
Now Jack desperately wants to get rid of this bad habit of being jealous. He is very much willing to reconcile with Janet and to trust her always. He has learned his lesson on the best way to build a healthy relationship with his wife. He never thought that maybe his wife was trying to find out how to plan a surprise birthday party.
Today I assure you that no love relationship will last if a partner(s) is jealous. If you're jealous in your relationship, then you will stand to lose your dignity, destroy your self-esteem and of all drive your girlfriend or boyfriend away from you.
Nothing kills a marriage or ruins a relationship quicker than jealousy between partners. This monster literally creates anger, fear, hatred, fury, unnecessary anxiety and loneliness between partners.
To be sincere, no one wants to be in relationship with someone who is jealous. Therefore, how do you avoid being jealous in your relationship? Below is a little advice.
1.) Always talk with your partner. Why am I even telling you this? You see when communication breaks down between partners it implies that something has changed. Your partner will start getting anxious. He/she may tend to believe you are hiding something. This leads on to mistrust and finally jealousy will find room in your relationship.
2.) In your relationship you shouldn't feel insecure. Partners who feel insecure eventually become jealous. Stop those misleading feelings of fears and paranoia.
3.) You should always trust your partner in order to get rid of jealousy or to avoid it in your relationship.
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