Are you trying to win him back? Are you sure that you're all in and ready willing and prepared to get your boyfriend back? It's going to be a bumpy ride full of ups and downs but in the end, do you have what it takes to stay the course and do what is necessary to get your ex back? Have you been struggling with all of this and you just feel like giving up at times? Are you happy and sure of yourself one minute and then driven to tears the next because the reality of being broken up come crawling back into your mind?
The reality is whatever you decide it is. No matter what you think or feel, that is your reality. So, you see, every time you doubt or get bummed out and start feeling that you're never going to be able to win him back, you are only hurting yourself. You are only destroying your own chances of getting your ex back and that is the reality of the situation.
Friends and family might try to protect you and tell you that the reality is that he left you. The reality might also be that he is seeing someone else. Maybe he even left you for another woman. Do you want to know the reality of that situation? The reality is that there is a very good chance that the other woman has nothing to do with you being inadequate as a woman and that relationship will probably break up all on its own. Now, that doesn't mean that you just need to sit there and wait for that to happen. We're talking reality here and being prepared and taking action isn't just for Boy Scouts.
This is your time and it is your opportunity to prepare and plan to get your ex back. Being bummed out and feeling terrible about yourself isn't going to help matters. Take this time and learn a little bit about how men think and what makes them attracted to one woman over another. Find out about male psychology and get inside his mind when the time comes to talk to him again. There is no time to waste and you want to know exactly what you're going to say and what you're going to do when that phone rings or when you hear that knock on your door, right?
You don't want to be caught with your pants down and if you knew for sure the exact time that he was going to come to your house, you would want to look smashing for him, wouldn't you? You don't want to be at the pharmacy in your pajamas wearing a pair of old flip flops and smelling like tuna when you run into him again. You want to have a sparkle in your eye and a hitch in your step the next time he lays eyes on you. You want him to remember why he fell in love with you in the first place and you want to leave him speechless as you control the situation.
Life in expectation of him knocking at your door and you can count on that opportunity to knock his socks of coming to you at some point. It could be in a week or a month but the more prepared you are and the harder you work the sooner that opportunity will come and the better your chances are of winning him back.
Spend some time each and every day thinking about how you want things to turn out. Know in your heart that this is going to happen. Dream a little bit every day and especially any time you're feeling down and blue about your breakup. Protect that dream and don't let anyone tell you that it's not based in reality because your reality is whatever you decide it is. Feel everything and know it in your heart that you will get that opportunity and be prepared to follow through with the words and actions that you know are going to help you to get him back.
The reality is whatever you decide it is. No matter what you think or feel, that is your reality. So, you see, every time you doubt or get bummed out and start feeling that you're never going to be able to win him back, you are only hurting yourself. You are only destroying your own chances of getting your ex back and that is the reality of the situation.
Friends and family might try to protect you and tell you that the reality is that he left you. The reality might also be that he is seeing someone else. Maybe he even left you for another woman. Do you want to know the reality of that situation? The reality is that there is a very good chance that the other woman has nothing to do with you being inadequate as a woman and that relationship will probably break up all on its own. Now, that doesn't mean that you just need to sit there and wait for that to happen. We're talking reality here and being prepared and taking action isn't just for Boy Scouts.
This is your time and it is your opportunity to prepare and plan to get your ex back. Being bummed out and feeling terrible about yourself isn't going to help matters. Take this time and learn a little bit about how men think and what makes them attracted to one woman over another. Find out about male psychology and get inside his mind when the time comes to talk to him again. There is no time to waste and you want to know exactly what you're going to say and what you're going to do when that phone rings or when you hear that knock on your door, right?
You don't want to be caught with your pants down and if you knew for sure the exact time that he was going to come to your house, you would want to look smashing for him, wouldn't you? You don't want to be at the pharmacy in your pajamas wearing a pair of old flip flops and smelling like tuna when you run into him again. You want to have a sparkle in your eye and a hitch in your step the next time he lays eyes on you. You want him to remember why he fell in love with you in the first place and you want to leave him speechless as you control the situation.
Life in expectation of him knocking at your door and you can count on that opportunity to knock his socks of coming to you at some point. It could be in a week or a month but the more prepared you are and the harder you work the sooner that opportunity will come and the better your chances are of winning him back.
Spend some time each and every day thinking about how you want things to turn out. Know in your heart that this is going to happen. Dream a little bit every day and especially any time you're feeling down and blue about your breakup. Protect that dream and don't let anyone tell you that it's not based in reality because your reality is whatever you decide it is. Feel everything and know it in your heart that you will get that opportunity and be prepared to follow through with the words and actions that you know are going to help you to get him back.
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