How to determine your top 5 relationship needs and stop limiting your dating options
Dating is difficult, especially when you have such high expectations of what you want from the person you plan on dating. Everyone want s their relationship needs met, but you have to be realistic. With being realistic that also means being open minded to dating those you would never have thought to date before because they just may be the one for you. The date advice you are about to get will help you find someone special. (Image by Katie Tegtmeyer via Flickr)
1. The first step I want you to do is to write down exactly what it is you want from someone that you would be dating, it can be mentally or physically.
2. Have you exhausted your list? Congrats. Now narrow it down to five. Yup, that's right, FIVE. Get to trimming. You'll be surprised what falls away when you can only choose five. But the important ones will pop out at you, promise. They'll make themselves clear.
3. Deciding on what you want will be hard, especially if you have a certain criteria you want your partner to meet. Choose what is really important to you and has an emotional hold on you.
4. If you get super stuck, hit the Webster Dictionary. No joke, this really works. You'll hone in on what exactly a word means. You might be surprised, at the very least, and at best, you'll get the clarification you need on which to choose.
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Your big old ten page long list will not get you any closer to meeting the person of your dreams, but by shortening up that list to the top 5 needs your looking for in a relationship to a post-it size will get you that person you've been looking for. You have to have real expectations that are tangible for some to meet.
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With the help of Sienna Nalin and her date tips for you, narrow down your unrealistic requirements in a relationship to 5 realistic relationship needs.
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