The Attractiveness Of The Girl Next Door
In general, for healthy beauty, natural, demure women who have become known as "the girl next door." Somehow she embodies all our instincts more mature and tamer: marriage, children and the bidding company. The main difference in our thinking is that their qualities are so important to us as it seems.
But the big question is: are there really or is it the collective psyche of men who just created to be a pipe dream? Let's find out why this down-home girl on our list of fantasy and discover what we can do to confirm or refute the myth of the girl next door.
It's The Girl Next Door?
First, let me define.
Each individual can have their specific door girl next prototype, but overall, she's the girl he has always admired from afar and were afraid to approach, fearing that any erotic projection toward ruin your ideal image of women decent and almost virginal pure. Think Jerry Maguire Renee Zellweger in character.
She is (in his mind at least) untrodden ground, and other men and so sweet-natured almost frightening to think that in situations of explicit sex. Almost. Here's another example: The image of his sister's best friend when we were kids. In his mind will always be that girl in 10 years, who played with you in the park. Only when it catches up with her 10 years later, still a child, but grown and someone to trust and connect with new levels of so many. The intrigue grows.
Similarly, it could be the cousin of a friend whom he met at family occasions in recent years. Or even a new employee at work who is shy and modest, but still gives you "seems so nice, I love talking to the" feel.
Get the picture yet?
Each individual can have their specific door girl next prototype, but overall, she's the girl he has always admired from afar and were afraid to approach, fearing that any erotic projection toward ruin your ideal image of women decent and almost virginal pure. Think Jerry Maguire Renee Zellweger in character.
She is (in his mind at least) untrodden ground, and other men and so sweet-natured almost frightening to think that in situations of explicit sex. Almost. Here's another example: The image of his sister's best friend when we were kids. In his mind will always be that girl in 10 years, who played with you in the park. Only when it catches up with her 10 years later, still a child, but grown and someone to trust and connect with new levels of so many. The intrigue grows.
Similarly, it could be the cousin of a friend whom he met at family occasions in recent years. Or even a new employee at work who is shy and modest, but still gives you "seems so nice, I love talking to the" feel.
Get the picture yet?
What We Like About Him?
There are many features of the kind of girl next door who qualify as "good" or virtuous. These are the things we have come to seek in a woman, who earn the respect of our sensitive men.
She is a homebody. Cooks, cleans and is not afraid to be home, helping with homework. Furthermore, there is a fan of the nightlife. She believes the nightclub scene is composed of hot drunken players who do not live with honesty. And after all, the players are not so great that I left, this is a refreshing, attractive and potentially alter the landscape changes to your appointments.
She is nurturing and sweet. Unlike many of the women I've dated who had militant positions against being nice to you just because you're a man, is to understand your needs and is willing to take care of you when you are sick. His behavior sweet - and knowing that what goes around comes around - makes you want to be with her and take care of it in class.
She does not attract attention. She is "under the radar" so to speak. Children do not go where you go, not because it is attractive, but because it prefers to remain low profile, both in appearance and attitude. She is so cute and it's not flashy, but the natural beauty that does not require layers of makeup.
She is a homebody. Cooks, cleans and is not afraid to be home, helping with homework. Furthermore, there is a fan of the nightlife. She believes the nightclub scene is composed of hot drunken players who do not live with honesty. And after all, the players are not so great that I left, this is a refreshing, attractive and potentially alter the landscape changes to your appointments.
She is nurturing and sweet. Unlike many of the women I've dated who had militant positions against being nice to you just because you're a man, is to understand your needs and is willing to take care of you when you are sick. His behavior sweet - and knowing that what goes around comes around - makes you want to be with her and take care of it in class.
She does not attract attention. She is "under the radar" so to speak. Children do not go where you go, not because it is attractive, but because it prefers to remain low profile, both in appearance and attitude. She is so cute and it's not flashy, but the natural beauty that does not require layers of makeup.
She is predictable and safe. What you see is what you get. You always know where you are with him, like that found on a given topic. There is no guesswork and makes an experience out of all women who have played with the head before.
She is low maintenance. This is one of his best qualities. You do not have to constantly buy jewelry and other gifts to keep your interest. Even with just the slums, which for a night in or out with you. Jeans and a T-shirt fashion as to get around the city. But here's the kicker: when the occasion requires, dressed to the nines.
She has family values. Because she comes from a strong family upbringing, she believes in the importance of the family. If you ever want to be a dad, this is the woman you want as the mother of his children.
She has a good personality. While this is not something you'd like to meet someone who meets a blind date, the girl next door is tolerant and able to joke with you about any subject. You can go anywhere with him and never bothered. She does not complain, but she does speak her mind with honesty and respect for their feelings.
It is reliable and secure. You can take your word for the bank. If she says she'll do something or be somewhere, what is written in stone. That could give their credit cards and do not worry you will overspend. Now that's a headache you will be glad to avoid.
She is low maintenance. This is one of his best qualities. You do not have to constantly buy jewelry and other gifts to keep your interest. Even with just the slums, which for a night in or out with you. Jeans and a T-shirt fashion as to get around the city. But here's the kicker: when the occasion requires, dressed to the nines.
She has family values. Because she comes from a strong family upbringing, she believes in the importance of the family. If you ever want to be a dad, this is the woman you want as the mother of his children.
She has a good personality. While this is not something you'd like to meet someone who meets a blind date, the girl next door is tolerant and able to joke with you about any subject. You can go anywhere with him and never bothered. She does not complain, but she does speak her mind with honesty and respect for their feelings.
It is reliable and secure. You can take your word for the bank. If she says she'll do something or be somewhere, what is written in stone. That could give their credit cards and do not worry you will overspend. Now that's a headache you will be glad to avoid.
So What Happens?
You know the old adage, "if it is too good to be true, it probably is"? That may also apply to the girl next door. Despite all the good qualities you assigned to it, there are still some things to consider - you can move the pedestal of his message that so easily.
It is a challenge. Let's face it, after some time with her, which can become boring. If you usually enjoy the spice that comes with a certain degree of frustration in a relationship, then scratches the itch of confrontation. Once there, the race is over and you can get to your point of view as a nuisance stronger than the sweet girl who thought she had found.
She is predictable and safe. If you do not like spontaneity, then this is not a problem. However, since you never deviate from the tried and true practices and experiences that may have a problem to spice up their relationship just when you think is more important to do so. Can you say vanilla sex?
That might be playing. The worst thing you discover is that this was all an act. She is really wild party girl child, who were raised with the "nice girl" facade, and suddenly, you're back to play in the same relationship that led to her first child.
It is a challenge. Let's face it, after some time with her, which can become boring. If you usually enjoy the spice that comes with a certain degree of frustration in a relationship, then scratches the itch of confrontation. Once there, the race is over and you can get to your point of view as a nuisance stronger than the sweet girl who thought she had found.
She is predictable and safe. If you do not like spontaneity, then this is not a problem. However, since you never deviate from the tried and true practices and experiences that may have a problem to spice up their relationship just when you think is more important to do so. Can you say vanilla sex?
That might be playing. The worst thing you discover is that this was all an act. She is really wild party girl child, who were raised with the "nice girl" facade, and suddenly, you're back to play in the same relationship that led to her first child.
Knocking On Your Door
By now you probably know why you've been in love with the girl next door type. It should not be too hard to get there and order a cup of sugar sweet thing that moved in across the hall or on the street. After all those women who have made a mistake with my heart, now is the time for love stable, honest neighborhood, good.
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