The Bad Guys Are Always The Girl?
If we are to believe the movies, the ruthless tough guy always gets the girl. And it seems that the bad guys in the school has always had the hottest girls? The best looking girls always seem to love the bad guys. Perhaps because the best players are always the bad guys? Everywhere we tend to see the bad guys and pretty girls. We see the fools and square heads with the girls of our fantasies. In the center we see our blonde goddesses with America's Most Wanted. Is it nature at work, what we are, what happened?
Men are confused. We like to refer to stereotypes and work. Men are told they have to be a hero and a tough guy. But then we are told we have to keep in touch with our sensitive side. Meanwhile, the common man who treats his friends like shit, never calls, is rude and disrespect seems to have a fan club developing. Life, my friends, can seem unfair. But let's look at what is happening with this scenario.
Of interest. The bad guys are interesting, they do interesting things. Who have strayed from the path and have developed their own code of conduct. They do what they want. They go where they want. They answer to no one. They are, in other words, fascinating. Towing the line, do what he said and, inevitably, it becomes boring. Mavericks are interesting, heterosexual men are not.
The bad guys are confident and sure of themselves. They know what it is and I do not care what others think. They are their own men, and not need others to support them. The bad guys do not have to be fit, just look at James Galdofini of The Sopranos, which is immensely attractive despite its bulky appearance. Some can become almost caricaturesof, but that does not make them less attractive.
Besides the bad guys are a challenge. We all like challenges, and the woman can love a challenge more than men. If something is hard, the end result must surely be worth it, right? The girls who go after the bad guys want to find the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow crazy. They do everything possible to solve its mysteries. And once you have them, once they have conquered the challenge, they do not want to let go. In addition to an exciting roller coaster ride, because the bad guy could be withdrawn at any time. The greater the danger of losing a bad guy, the greater the effort that will propose to support them. And it can be a lesson.
What do we have if we combine these facets? Power, strength of character, confidence, character and maverick personality equals sensuality very interesting. That's exactly what the problem is that it is not surprising that this type of person is usually the girl. Not that we like, and that does not mean fair, not even a good thing, but the premiums may naturally attract.
I am not in any way suggesting that we should all be Mr. Bad Guy. Not at all. What I am saying is that there are lessons to learn here. What is attractive and may be modified in our arsenal of weapons of appointments. How you perceive yourself what matters most. If you can increase your confidence levels, get your career on track, stands out in what you do and be your own man within the limits of their working life, then you will get that bad boy confidence. And that attitude is going to increase its appeal. You need not go around being bad, but can be a little more deliberate in your actions, a little less available and a bit more enigmatic. This will increase the interest factor and again help in their appeal.
The modern dating game is very complex and courtship rituals can be a minefield. Back to basics, talking about what they think potential partners who want and think about how you can match these qualities. Changing only a few small things can make the world of difference.
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