Social Relations
There is no doubt that social media like Facebook, Flickr and Twitter makes it easy to keep in touch with friends and family members, promote your business, and follow your favorite topics. But like any tool, social media, work best when used wisely - especially when it comes to dating. Make connections and timely information can be useful in the dating world. On the other hand, it is easy to fall into TMI territory with someone he hardly knows. So how can you use social networks to increase their social life?
Control of himself - his own line. Use search engines to see what information is available about you online. You can find their address, names of relatives and other personal information are out there. Want all the dates to access these data? If not, now is the time to strengthen your privacy on Facebook and Twitter, Flickr photos to decide which private or friends only, and if you really think you need to know Foursquare is down in the bar at the top right this minute. Make your own search only shows what is shared with strangers.
About Search - If you have not been looking at potential dates online, do so now. Online searches and public announcements can help verify that their interest is the love that she says she is or does what she says she does. It can also show signs of alarm or misjudgments that otherwise could not know until much later - if ever - in a relationship. If nothing else, you will notice if the potential date has a good handle on your online image.
Think before Amigo - A good day is a good start, but there is no need to connect with those who eat or drink. Carefully consider what added to their networks can save time and awkwardness, if the initial dates are not. When you add a new person to the Net, read your messages, see who their friends and see how it works online. And we'll do the same with you, once you add, consider what you post. Do you want this type of reading about his long list of food allergies or rash on the stomach of the cat while you are trying to start a romance?
Pace Yourself - Do not cut in the office of the date, five times a day to say hello, so show some discretion in making virtual contact. Too much play in the media can be annoying and make you appear needy. If you are on the receiving end of a virtual constant attention, which could be a flag for anything from an excess of enthusiasm for a personality disorder. Decide the amount of contact you feel comfortable and keep that border.
Keep it Real - In the early stages of dating, is the temptation to text, tweet or message of his new love a lot, because it is very easy to do. But do not confuse virtual contact to really know someone. There is much you can learn about a person in person, or even by telephone, you can not online. The tone of voice, facial expressions, and the eagerness or reluctance with which someone is an issue are all kinds of information can be gathered just by being there.
And that's the general goal of dating after all: enjoy the company of someone in person. In order to use their social media wisely to help you present yourself, protect yourself and find the right person for you. Then, spend quality time together - online.
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