First Loves. Our Past Continues To Haunt Us

First Loves. Our Past Continues To Haunt Us

HOW TO GET OVER YOUR EX-BOYFRIEND AND MOVE ON

We are looking for Mr. or Miss Right or already known? It is the right time Mr. exist in your former life? They were childhood sweethearts? 

The first love is not a new topic, but I realized that first love is an emotionally powerful. With this in mind I realized that love must first have a much greater effect on how we manage our lives that maybe they want to admit. Until we are in virgin who came into effect on emotional love. True love has to touch us. We assume we know a lot about life already and is supposed to feel the same way as everyone else, but we do not. 

Only those who have been in love for the first time to know the world has much more to it than meets the eye. Like the death of an adult or a parent or loved one can not be prepared and first love of many of us is a happy experience tinged with lifelong sadness and, interestingly, an element of punishment. Because if not we marry our childhood sweetheart, our right to first and Mr. live happily ever after, most of us will go to our first love that just one more time and learn from the experience. 

I'm not talking here about a first date, first kiss or first sex. I'm serious about a first true love, the person who first fell in love with it and can not live without it. It could be a childhood sweetheart, but do not have to be. Childhood sweethearts have an enormous influence and yet not be underestimated in the legacy he leaves. But I agree that this dear child hood is too specific. Personally, I've always been jealous of the class who were childhood sweethearts, as was the way it was supposed to. 

First love is the first time to learn to deal with the pain of anxiety, stomach churning adoration, lust, love, anxiety, salty tears know no end. For the first time you learn what a deep communication with another person outside his immediate family, such as physical and spiritual. Can not live without them, you feel alive like never before, is not any other human being. It's fantastic, unbelievable, it's the best thing in the world and becomes your life becomes your life becomes your life. And it ends. In an instant, the best thing that happened ... stops. 

I can exaggerate this stage and, of course, does not happen to everyone, but surprisingly, most of us had any experience like this. If not, then be warned. I say this because this can only be what governs what we are. For many of us, our first great love occurs sometime between 16 and 21 years of age when young and fresh and optimistic and prepared for life. At this time we are more open to experience and we are at our most vulnerable. At this time love can ever love again, at least for a while. 

During this time of the first true love we open ourselves to all that love can bring, joy, defeat, passion, honesty, communication and contact, all at levels never experienced before. Our minds store away all the details, as part of our vertical new learning in love and romance and we can not get enough. But the point is that they took. It may be that we are making a wise decision, perhaps it is we who decide too much too young. It may not be our choice and our eternally loved partner walks away leaving us with time to questions that may never be answered. But whatever happens and however, occurs at the end of our first love, making and leaving a legacy, like it or not. 

Well, I hear you ask, what legacy, or is my legacy and his legacy? No, everyone is different. The first love of many people often leaves us live the happy memories that are linked to other close friends, with college and school, with the times and places and the summers in particular. For others, the first love is a series of memories of regret, bad decisions and choices they have learned and I hope you get stronger. For those who have aged with the legacy of a first love, future dating decisions are often too closely related to the first true love experience.

The first legacy is often physical. We want to recapture the feeling of being with our first love, our childhood sweethearts, our Mr. Right or Miss Right, and the easiest way for our brains to do is find someone who looks like them. How many times have you seen a couple of friends with someone who looks like his first love. Surprisingly, when I thought about it, there were very few people knew he was leaving the image of his childhood friends. Therefore, find comfort in being with someone who resembles our first love. 

Then we find that we are left with a legacy of the need to recreate a feeling of love we've had time to grow. What this really means is that if you have experienced true love once, we want it again. Not a little, but the same or even more, like the first time. I secretly crave it. Now this is a serious legacy of our past romance because what this means is that it can not be satisfied by many relationships that come our way later. Each time the date we want to be like the first time, full of new experiences, full of innocent love, without preconditions. Yes, and now have preconditions, and we have learned from our first love. We have established a basis for the presence of love.

So this means it will be difficult in our romantic and dating decisions. Subconsciously we relate to our first love the feeling of being in perfect love and, as such, the desire. We need and want love and romance this huge wave that is very powerful and magical as it was the first time and if not come and come quickly, then the person that the date will be penalized for it. I do not want to go out with people who seem to be different from the person who showed us love, avoid selecting people who do not show the greatest potential in the early days of the meeting. In other words, the new dates are not reaching a point of reference for the love that we have set dangerously high and can not be. We want the date of our childhood sweethearts a second time.

Then, the first love legacy means that we can punish those who do not receive the same incredible feeling love for them to go and continue our search. In the end, it can mean so high that we seek to find love and happiness comparable to be difficult. Date after date we are looking for something we can not find. People often say here, "I know what I'm looking for, but is within me, but I can not find me, but I will when I see (feel) that". In other words, they know what they like and want to feel again, but so far they do not accept, "I do not do," he said. And dating becomes difficult. 

Of course, what we forget is that our first love, our perfect man, probably a few years now, a different person, maybe even looks different. That time has arrived. Lost in time, and only lives within us. I think it may be a good thing if we control it and be part of us, but not take over. It applies some of the options we are and want to date guide and help us somehow, as it clarifies what we know we can be happy. Even better is that it reminds us that true love can and does exist, but we are on a quest to find it again. To find true love in the first love is an amazing thing and many say that seeing that twice in life is impossible. 

I disagree, I think that as long as we accept that we should not try to recreate our first love, which are not of sound mind clearer to people who know what they are and are wise in the experience of love, both good and bad. We must remember not to let this affect the potential of the relationship in the future even more powerful than any that came before. Your perfect man is a waiting place, not just in the past.