First Dates: On The First Date And You Can Not Do

First Dates: On The First Date And You Can Not Do

TIPS TO MAKE YOUR FIRST APPOINTMENT WITHOUT PROBLEMS

First dates can be nerve wracking, and often do daters experienced even more shy, reserved and prone to awkward and embarrassing mistakes that blow the chances of getting a second date, even before the initial meeting has finished. Here are some tips to help you more attractive foot forward and make a good impression.
What to do
 
1. Arrive on time. The last thing I want to do is make a bad impression on your date for being late. The delay means that no one cares. Worse, the person you are meeting can not wait to go.
 
2. Make your partner feel comfortable. We're all a bit scary for a first date with someone. Trying to put your partner at home and relax or she will also help you stay calm and enjoy.
 
3. Not be an interesting date. The worst thing you can do is show up on a date with someone and then sit there all night and talk about anything - or, worse still, be quiet so they could have eaten alone. Do not forget easily.
 
4. They laugh at their jokes. Even if you've heard the joke 100 times or more (or just not fun at all), laughing along with the date will communicate that you are interested in them.
 
5. Failure to maintain a conversation. That terrible silence in which both are struggling to do something - anything - to say, which may seem to last forever and make you both think the other person is boring. Scoring a couple of questions ahead of time. The practice of the time you can make a difference.
 
6. Have an interest in your date. Listen when he or she is talking. Be interested in what they have to say, and show how interested you are asking questions about what they enjoy doing, reading, dining, etc.
 
7. Do not go to a unique place. First dates do not have to be in the movies or a restaurant for a nice meal. That will make a long lasting impression if you can be creative.
 
8. Not sure. The trust says a lot about a person. Being more confident will help you get through that first date with ease and let your partner know that you are comfortable with who you are.
 
9. Be yourself. You will not fool anyone by pretending to be someone you're not. Also, if you are thinking to keep seeing this person, actually going out over time, so you might as well start by introducing them to what they really are, warts and all.
 
10. They stay safe. Take your cell phone with you, the plan to drive yourself and let a friend know where to go, who to be with them and when you return.

 
Don'ts
 
1. Do not be late. First impressions count, and if you arrive late, this will make the date that you are lazy and did not care enough to plan ahead.
 
2. Do not talk about yourself all night. There is nothing worse than a person who loves to talk about herself all the time. How vain can you get?
 
3. Do not talk about past relationships. Maybe that's how you lost the last. Nobody wants to hear the hum of your ex and what he did or not. Focusing on this new person, and see if you can get to the second date.
 
4. Do not eat with your mouth open. It is serious. Your date is there to see, not food.
 
5. Do not bombard your date with very personal questions. Like you, you may not want to reveal too much of themselves for the moment. If you like each other and want to continue the relationship after this first meeting, there will be plenty of time to ask questions and dig deeper.
 
6. Do not try to be someone you're not. So I like dogs, but you're a cat person. Pretending otherwise will only make the other person feel cheated and off when you discover the truth. Finding someone you want for yourself, not what they pretend to be.
 
7. Do not forget to thank the person to date. This is not just good manners, but also gives you the opportunity to end it, if you are not interested - or ask to go on another date, if you are.
 
8. Do not propose marriage or children, unless you never want to see that person.
 
9. Not looking for sex after your partner has said no. Period. It is tasteless, and prove you're an idiot.
 
10. Do not get drunk! Just as drinking too much alcohol to calm your nerves sounds like a good idea, think about how you feel bad if you missed most of the time because you're in the bathroom to see their food. In addition, this type of behavior shows their interest in the love that can not control himself and not know their limits. It is also uncertain - have drunk and reduced inhibitions can jeopardize the unwanted advances, and will not be in the right frame of mind or body to do something about it.