Potential Partners: What We Look For In Mates

Potential Partners: What We Look For In Mates

WHAT’S MORE IMPORTANT TO US IN THE CHOICE OF A LOVE INTEREST

The data can be as complicated as a company can try to find a date. When you begin dating, we often forget to consider what you are looking for in others we meet. We started with a definite idea of ​​the perfect match of contributions. At the time that they are someone, or see pictures of the profiles or personal ads online - we forget everything! Why is this? Because we are influenced by many factors, in other words, are not on the road as much as we like to think we are.
 
Beauty, of course, often dominates. As much as we like to say that they are not, there are very few of us who would not date someone attractive. It's in our blood and they usually say yes to an attractive person. The beauty tends to rub off on those around them, so if we associate ourselves with what we believe are good seems to feel good about ourselves right away too. Most of us are not models and therefore tend not to meet them, but we realize the things that surround us. If you can see something beautiful, then you can also appreciate someone beautiful. To ignore this is a lie.
 
However, if we simply lived and dated by the beauty alone would be too shallow to succeed in real sense. It would have two dimensions and personages without interest in a meaningful way. It is often leveled as a criticism of attractive people who do not have very strong personalities, as they have changed their appearance for a long time. By contrast, a conventionally attractive person can often have a strong and interesting personality to compensate for the lack of attractive in a physical sense. Therefore, it is clear that as an isolating factor beauty (or, more specifically, physical attraction) is important, but not the only important thing when dating others.
 
We hope that the mood of a person, because they want to feel good for being with us and want you to feel good about themselves in their decisions. We also want ourselves to feel good and relax and have fun, and a great time. Therefore, when a date with someone, humor is a necessity if we ever reach a level of relaxation in the company of that person. Laughter and humor are trying to create a mental connection and understanding the world around us. Shows a set of commonly accepted beliefs among us who can demonstrate a quick understanding level is not known in almost any other form.
 
Leaving the other, seeking eye contact at the meeting, since it is the most direct sense of understanding and truth and honesty. Almost always look in the eyes for the first time when we find that is where we first find the attraction. I do not understand here to explain why it can be, but I like the expression that our eyes are the gateway to the soul. I agree. The smallest change in the brightness of the eyes conveys many emotions and so the first thing we started our relationship immediately.
 
When dating others who seek a common understanding and acceptance. We do not seek partners as judges but as part of our own emotional support system. We like to admire and be admired, however subtly. In another language, we say that we appreciate and as shown. Anyway, enjoy the company of another, because we make each other feel good about themselves. It is a tacit agreement. Where relationships begin to crumble after is where the understanding and support is replaced by the critical internal frustrations due to lack of support. Initially, the date of this understanding and acceptance shown by the different methods of conversation and laughter at an agreement on the issue, agreement on the places to visit at times and meals, beverages, to go to the movies and so part of the agreement on the basis of common understanding, find common ground between us.
 
We look for honesty and truth when dating. It can be like a long-term test, especially when they are new to the dating game and have been previously burned fingers. We know it is within each of embellishing the truth and, unfortunately, part of the ritual of dating is for us to talk to, so they sell them as worthy. When this happens we must be careful not to go too far and add things that are not true. Later, our growing relationship may collapse through lies. And yet there are very few of us who cling to the truth 100% alone. At some point, and a substance of our conversations to help our image to our appointment and to be honest this can all be part of the fun. But the basis of honesty has to be maintained when the data otherwise it is a futile exercise. We are trying to share our time with someone so let's be honest from the beginning.
 
There is an argument that when we are looking for someone like us, a reflection of how we feel about ourselves and the world around us. I think it is a wrong view. I think what this theory really means is that we want to love and be loved and to allow this to happen, we hope to find someone who not only matches a set of important criteria that we set, but also someone who sees the world as what do. Not exactly, perhaps, but so close we can continue to grow as individuals and as a couple.