How To Use Body Language To Your Advantage When The Contacts
This is the language that needs no words. Women have been doing for hundreds of years to attract the man they want. Fluent in body language will ensure that you will be an expert in attracting the right man and sending the signal is lost to the wrong person.
As for the awards
The more eye contact with the white set, the better. Start with some sidelong glances. So start with direct eye contact. Again, to meet his gaze, immediately lower your eyes and smile to yourself. This will tell you were watching and are embarrassed to be caught - a sure sign of interest. Then be brave and try to keep their eyes and flash a smile.
If a man is giving the eye and are not interested, the look of it and not look back on it. While holding a conversation, staring at the ceiling and around the room also shows a clear lack of interest.
First impressions count
Leave home prepared to go to a party when you see your neighbor's beautiful, and not take a second look. Why? Because they do not dress better. When you enter a room, most people look to see who has come in. This is when you have to give a good impression. Looking your best will make you feel better. So make sure that before you leave your front door, look your best. You never know. You can only call the attention of the big neighbor.
The use of the hand (no, not what you're thinking!)
Even without direct contact, your hands can send very powerful messages. There are a number of ways to convey that you want to meet someone. Keep your hands relaxed open shows for him. Using your hands to caress objects, such as the edge of the glass, locks of her hair, or the sleeve of her blouse in a rhythmic (as opposed to fidgety) manner, can be a sensual act. And for the brave, try picking up the lint from his jacket, touching it to emphasize a point, or using the "accidental contact" to reach the salt.
Hands in his pockets, cleaning glasses or a ball into fists are bad signs. Fingers tapping, drumming, pointing, or moving are also signs of progress.
Highlight
His position is one of the most eloquent signs that you transmit. An open stance is evidence of an open person. As for his body to the man who is conversing with, keeping your feet flat on the floor and leaning forward are actions that show interest. In addition, tilting his head slightly, cross and uncross their legs and pushing the chest forward give the message that you are interested.
Crossing your arms, holding a drink high in front of you, turning your body away or resting your feet on the toes to tell a person who is not interested.
For additional tips
Hopefully now you have a plan of attack for when it's time to get down and dirty, or when it is best just to wave the white flag. These are just some tips when it comes to perfect your body language skills:
• You know things are going well when you start to "mirror" of body language and gestures.
• Do not tease him, offering more of what's to come. This can lead to very ugly circumstances.
• Chain smoking, being extremely intoxicated, or having eyes only for his food dish will not be the best game standingfor body language.
• If you try your hand at him, and he does not respond, immediately abort the mission.
• After the night that only make you look needy and desperate.
And finally, if all else fails, buy a shirt that says: "Looking for Love".
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